Have your dreams put a restraining order on you?

HAVE YOUR DREAMS PUT A RESTRAINING ORDER ON YOU??

I have some questions for you that are proven to get you thinking differently to before :-)
 

Take some time, about twenty minutes to write down your answers.

Okay so… here goes….

* Do you have a big dream or dreams?

* Is it the same one as last year? Has anything changed to get you nearer to it?

* What is stopping you from going after it? Are your reasons REALLY impossible to overcome?

* If I offered you a million dollars to get it done in a certain time frame, would that change your perspective, belief, drive or motivation?
Any clearer?

You see..... if you don’t have a road map or clear directions, how are you supposed to know where on earth your going??
Your dreams become much clearer once you start to focus on them. Be brave and bold and courageous! 
Start to chase your dreams so much that they try to put a restraining order on you (-:

* Take clear and decisive steps.

* Ignore negative and small minded people.

* Write down your goals and pin them everywhere.

* Tell as many people as you can and shout it from the roof tops.

* Most of all do something every day, consistently, no matter how small, that brings you a little closer to it.

Read my article here on The top 7 ways to master your mind for success!

And remember, it is just when you are about to give up, it is just then, that your dream is right within your grasp!

Keep dreaming big!
Danielle x

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The 4 Easiest mistakes you make to STOP your progress!

The 4 easiest mistakes you make to STOP your progress -

1) You Settle -

You EXPECT less and you start to believe that this is all there is to life and that you should just be happy with it.

This does NOT mean APPRECIATING every day and being GRATEFUL for what you do have in your life.
In fact doing a gratitude list daily actually causes you to want more and get more... because you start to expect good things and look out for them.
* If you surround yourself with mediocrity then you will settle for that.
* You deserve to have all that you can and all that you can is what you deserve.
* Deciding that you 'should' simply be happy with your lot is an immediate stopping point.

(Read my Article HERE on The Top 10 Things that Unsuccessful people do)

*ALWAYS be grateful BUT never believe you HAVE to settle!

2) Think Small -

You don't dream anymore.
As you know by now - you get more of what you focus on. (More about FOCUSING on the good stuff here)
 SO... focus on the good stuff, expect it to happen and it will.
If you play it safe  and Stay in the familiar and never feel Fear you will never grow!
And if you put yourself down and Insult yourself ...HOW is that helpful?

*Ask yourself better questions. ALL the time!

3) Over exaggerate -

You expect you have to do too much -You think its all or nothing.
You exaggerate the outcome and the worst scenario.
Always watch carefully for any Generalisations, Distortions or Deletions in your thinking.
This will help you think more sensibly and beneficially.

*Always remember The MAP IS NOT THE TERRITORY! (Click to learn more about this)

4) You Procrastinate -

Inaction is the sure-most way of halting progress.
Action breeds action and the same is true for inaction.
As one of my favourite martial arts quotes says....
'He who hesitates, meditates in a horizontal position.'
Just like with the 'fight or flight' response, inaction causes paralysation, whether physical or mental.
DO SOMETHING - ANYTHING!

Start by reading The 1st Step on your Journey...

*Take one little step every day and you will be amazed when you look back at the change!

*****

A client and friend of mine recently said; 'He was STILL struggling with a negative voice occasionally'.

Well, allow me to tell you 2 BIG SECRETS......

1) That negative voice will continue to pop back in now and then...BUT....
2) You do NOT HAVE to believe it!

Thoughts are simply that remember. Simply thoughts!
It does not mean they are a FACT!
YOU can CHOOSE how you deal and react to that thought and if you want to choose to believe it or challenge it.

I chose to do that this week again when those voices popped in.
I have been working on my next book- a fantasy Novel (all about good and bad and how our minds work). I sent it to a couple of folk to read, nervous of what they would say.
BUT I did it anyway...
I also have been painting and preparing for a very small exhibit of my paintings and occasionally a little doubt still creeps in.

Let me be CLEAR.
I KNOW I am not the best painter in the world.....
BUT what I make sure to bring to mind OFTEN is...
That I LOVE it and it makes some people smile.

That's all that matters, isn't it?? ;-)
After all just like the quote ....

Keep feeling awesome and striving to help others feel so too!

 

 

Lots of love and good thoughts,
Danielle x
Your Mind Coach

Oh yea... and here is my latest pic, the inspiration for my next book!
You see just like you I also feel doubt  occasionally
but I can CHOOSE to believe you will love him as much as I do!
Thank you xxxxxx

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What is YOUR GIFT??

 And how do you find it?

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Recently I was pontificating on how to reach a certain milestone in my business.

I was chatting with my partner and I asked him his opinion.

I asked him what he thought I should do so as to become better known as the 'go to person'. The one that people could find easily when they were looking for help.

I was feeling frustrated and in a hurry to go global! lol

He mentioned how much things had changed for me in the past few years but I was still feeling impatient. He asked me what had I done so far?

I reflected on this and replied that besides the obvious practical stuff, like websites, some SEO and all that techno stuff (all good practical stuff) really I had not done much else.

'Really?' he asked. 'So how have you got clients so far?'

'Well', I replied.. 'I have just been myself'.
I shrugged and he looked at me with a meaningful glint in his eyes.

That's when I copped it! He's much smarter than me, you see! :-)
And I'm the one always preaching about 'trying'!

You see, I don't have to 'try'. I just have to 'be' me!
 Pay special attention to this!

If you 'try' to be something then your not being authentic.
As long as you just 'BE' you than all will go smoothly. Once you start to try to be something your loosing your 'self'! My successes have all come about without 'trying'. When I was at my most natural, fired up with passion and belief and an inner fire that's when I have achieved transformation with my clients.
When I worked from a place of authenticity and integrity that's when others passed it on and spread the word for me!

The same goes for you.

My gift is simply being 'me' and yours is being 'you'.
This is MUCH deeper than it sounds!
Think about it :-)

How much more authentic and real are you with others when you are NOT trying to BE something but just simply BEING you - This is your gift to others.
Have the courage to let go and be yourself.

I'm not talking about learning and honing your skills and knowledge or improving your visibility with social media etc. All this is valuable and useful. I'm not talking about wanting to improve your life or aspiring to better things. Dreaming big and taking action is what I'm all about! Every time you experience or learn something new you are stretching your knowledge and hence your ability to manifest.

I'm talking about what you GIVE to others at any moment.
Are you giving YOU or someone you think you should be.

Your gift is to be authentic.
Your gift is to be YOU...and in return you will get many gifts from others.

One of my dogs was very ill this week, you may have seen my fb post here https://www.facebook.com/theblackbeltmastermind/photos/a.484211644930596.112776.483971261621301/851573518194405/?type=1&theatre

Anyway, he made it thanks to his brother and my Hero Macchi.
Macchi didn't 'try' to be anything. He just was and used his gift.
Everyday he gives me this gift by loving me unconditionally and filling me full of joy and love.

Can you do that for someone today??

Love unconditionally and share your gift and you will get back so many more!                   

My Hero... Macchi!xxx

Anyway... my last Blackbelt Mastermind Bootcamp was another great success with some incredible people. I made some wonderful new friends also and witnessed some marvellous transformations. So truly grateful to have these opportunities to help change lives and make life long friends. Often, I find the people that come to me for help affect my life also. This is what I mean by your GIFT. I am touched daily by the love, kindness and trust that you put in me and I really hope that I do you justice in return. I promise you I give you my all.... One such person that has made a HUGE impression on me and has truly touched my heart was a lovely lady that came to me for help but I feel she has given me even more than I have given her. I have learnt a new found strength from just knowing her and it has given me renewed vision and clarity in what I do. I believe if you surround yourself with such genuine shining people such as this lady we can do anything. Her name is Carol Brill and 'brill' indeed she is. Some of you may know her from one of my recent Bootcamps or through the incredible group Irishbizparty. Anyway, I am now looking for your help on this! Please read the following link and support her in any way you can and help make her dream come true! http://www.gofundme.com/seeingdisney Please read, share and support and use the #seeingdisney on Twitter!   Lets make a difference in this world today. Lets use our gift and allow her this opportunity to use hers. Thank you for reading, Love Danielle xxx Your Mind Coach 'Change your Mind and Change your Life!'

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